Sadie's Dating Adventures: Being Alone?

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Sadie's Dating Adventures: Being Alone?
by Cheri Valentine

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These past weeks have been such a struggle between loneliness and wanting to be alone. How does that make
sense? One moment I am enjoying my freedom, the space to be just me. I turn up the music very loudly and dance
around the room as if no one is watching me. Then it occurs to me that no one is watching me since I am all alone.
Oh the sadness of it all!

Another day, I revel in how much I am enjoying plastering posters on all the walls as I sketch out new designs for my
dream house, adding details as inspiration strikes me. Then sadness once again seeps in as I wonder if I will live in
it by myself. Then I perk up as I affirm how joyful it is that I could build a home totally to my own specifications
without having to consider another’s opinion. In another moment, I want someone else’s ideas to flow with mine.

Oh the bother of it all! Why can’t I just enjoy being alone? I am told this is a wonderful time for me to really enjoy
my life. I can spend time with friends, do whatever I want, and discover my true essence. Although, I am not sure I
really want to know what that is. I am afraid I may like that Sadie even less than I am liking this one.

Of course, Lindy tells me that I may like that Sadie even more, and that I am terrified of that possibility. I laugh at
the absurdity of that. Yet, when I am in the throes of despair, as I often seem to be, I wonder, could she be right?