| Lifestyles/Dating - How Do I Know He’s the One? by Elaine Saunders |
Women often ask: How do you know when he’s “the One?” Trouble is, our inner love alarm often rings for the wrong guy.
Even if you do believe in love at first sight, it’s always best to relax and let time be the test. If it’s “meant to be,” he isn’t
going away, ever. And if you are going to be stuck with him forever, why waste any energy being anxious about it? Most
everyone admits they saw red flags in the beginning, or “deep down inside knew something just wasn’t right” when a
relationship comes to its end. But what if it is right and has a lot of good potential? Either way, there is nothing wrong with
meeting new acquaintances and keeping your options open, while getting to know someone who might be worthy to hold
the key to your heart. If he’s clamoring for a commitment too soon, or before you know he’s right for you for sure, guess
what? Red flag!
So, while trying to get to know a man better, here are some questions that might offer you true insight into whether he
really is worthy. Or, it just might be fun
to ask:
Who are your heroes?
If you could have a conversation with one person, alive or historical, who would that be and why?
What is God or spirituality to you? How important is that in your life?
If you won the lottery, what would you do?
If you could live anywhere in the world, where would that be?
What is your definition of an “honorable man”?
What accomplishments are you most proud of?
What do you want to be appreciated for?
What have you done out of obligation that you really didn’t want to do?
What do you do for fun?
What kind of vacation do you enjoy?
What are your favorite sports and why?
If you could change something about your life with a magic wand, what would it be?
What do you think is unique about being ___________ (fill in Nationality)
If you are a father, what is great and what is hard about that?
If you have a daughter, what effect does she have on you?
If you have a son, what do think is important to contribute to him?
What do you want for your children’s lives?
What do you admire about your father?
What did you learn from your parents?
What do you like about your job or career?
What is the process you use in making a decision?
What was one of the best days you ever had?
What are your favorite books? What did you like about them?
If you watch T.V., what kinds of programs to you like?
What types of movies do you like?
What are your favorite movies?
What is your favorite holiday? What is special about it?
What is your worst holiday? Why?
Do female friends provide something different than male friends?
What do you think about strong, successful women?
What would you change about how women communicate with you?
What do you think about women asking men out?
What kind of gifts do you enjoy getting or giving?
What is the most romantic thing a woman has ever done for you?
Elaine Saunders was the Marketing Director for a top-rated dating company before starting her own introduction service.
“There’s more than one way to skin a cat!” is the philosophy she uses to coach clients to relationship success. For more
information about her company, Dynamic Introductions, visit the web at www.dynamicintroductions.com or call (603) 471-
3935.
Even if you do believe in love at first sight, it’s always best to relax and let time be the test. If it’s “meant to be,” he isn’t
going away, ever. And if you are going to be stuck with him forever, why waste any energy being anxious about it? Most
everyone admits they saw red flags in the beginning, or “deep down inside knew something just wasn’t right” when a
relationship comes to its end. But what if it is right and has a lot of good potential? Either way, there is nothing wrong with
meeting new acquaintances and keeping your options open, while getting to know someone who might be worthy to hold
the key to your heart. If he’s clamoring for a commitment too soon, or before you know he’s right for you for sure, guess
what? Red flag!
So, while trying to get to know a man better, here are some questions that might offer you true insight into whether he
really is worthy. Or, it just might be fun
to ask:
Who are your heroes?
If you could have a conversation with one person, alive or historical, who would that be and why?
What is God or spirituality to you? How important is that in your life?
If you won the lottery, what would you do?
If you could live anywhere in the world, where would that be?
What is your definition of an “honorable man”?
What accomplishments are you most proud of?
What do you want to be appreciated for?
What have you done out of obligation that you really didn’t want to do?
What do you do for fun?
What kind of vacation do you enjoy?
What are your favorite sports and why?
If you could change something about your life with a magic wand, what would it be?
What do you think is unique about being ___________ (fill in Nationality)
If you are a father, what is great and what is hard about that?
If you have a daughter, what effect does she have on you?
If you have a son, what do think is important to contribute to him?
What do you want for your children’s lives?
What do you admire about your father?
What did you learn from your parents?
What do you like about your job or career?
What is the process you use in making a decision?
What was one of the best days you ever had?
What are your favorite books? What did you like about them?
If you watch T.V., what kinds of programs to you like?
What types of movies do you like?
What are your favorite movies?
What is your favorite holiday? What is special about it?
What is your worst holiday? Why?
Do female friends provide something different than male friends?
What do you think about strong, successful women?
What would you change about how women communicate with you?
What do you think about women asking men out?
What kind of gifts do you enjoy getting or giving?
What is the most romantic thing a woman has ever done for you?
Elaine Saunders was the Marketing Director for a top-rated dating company before starting her own introduction service.
“There’s more than one way to skin a cat!” is the philosophy she uses to coach clients to relationship success. For more
information about her company, Dynamic Introductions, visit the web at www.dynamicintroductions.com or call (603) 471-
3935.
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